August 26, 1938 – June 26, 2025
Oklahoma lost one of its most respected horsemen and racing advocates with the passing of Melvin Wayne Bollenbach on June 26, 2025, in Oklahoma City. He was 86.
Known for his integrity, quiet leadership, and unshakable work ethic, Melvin was a man whose life bridged generations of service, success, and stewardship. Whether soaring through the skies as a naval aviator or guiding breeding lines that shaped Quarter Horse racing, Mel lived with purpose and pride.
A Life Rooted in Grit and Growth
Born on August 26, 1938, in Kingfisher, Oklahoma, Melvin grew up on a family farm east of town. His earliest memories of horses date back to a Shetland pony named Sugar. But it was a half-Thoroughbred mare named Pee Wee—his “heart horse”—that truly sparked his passion. He broke horses for friends and family, but Pee Wee held a special place, and parting with her to help pay for college left a lifelong impression.
Melvin graduated from Oklahoma State University with a degree in geology before serving nine years as a naval aviator and flight instructor. Landing jets on aircraft carriers taught him to overcome fear and doubt, once remarking, “My frame of mind was my only limitation.”
While stationed in Rhode Island, Mel met Jacqueline “Jackie” Germaine Shelly of Pawtucket. When she asked him, “Do you have a horse?” their shared values and humor set the stage for a love that lasted nearly 60 years. They married in 1965 and went on to build a life steeped in family, hard work, and horses.
Finance, Farming, and Fast Horses
In 1970, Mel began a long and successful career in finance with Smith Barney. A gifted investor in both stocks and commodities, he remained active in the industry until retiring at age 80. But behind the desk, Mel’s heart still beat for the land—and the racetrack.
In 1976, he purchased two farms and began raising cattle and crops. That same year, a friend introduced him to the world of Quarter Horse racing by purchasing two horses at a dispersal sale—one being Fast Misty. That marked the beginning of a legacy in racing that would span decades and continents.
His early breeding successes came from the mare A Special Smith, whose foals included standout names like Bully Bonds, Wallstreet Darlin, Miss Stocks And Bonds, and others. This bloodline led to Azoom Babe, dam of the exceptional Valiant Rogue, a horse that Mel held especially dear. Another progeny, Corona Ranger, turned Azoom Babe into a millionaire-producing mare.
Among his proudest achievements was breeding Krash Cartel, out of Race Valentine—a mare sired by Strawfly Special. Krash Cartel went on to become a leading sire in Mexico, furthering the Bollenbach influence abroad.
Over the years, Mel and Jackie held syndicate shares in legendary sires such as Corona Cartel, Valiant Hero, Azoom, Mr Jess Perry, Wave Carver, and Teller Cartel, helping shape the modern Quarter Horse gene pool.
Mel once said, “If you don’t have a lottery ticket, you can’t win.” For him, every foal was a ticket—and every race a chance at magic.
A Legacy of Leadership and Honor
Melvin served as a director of the Oklahoma Quarter Horse Racing Association and a commissioner on the Oklahoma Horse Racing Commission, advocating tirelessly for the industry he loved. In 2020, he and Jackie were inducted into the OQHRA Hall of Fame, a fitting tribute to their contributions as breeders, owners, and ambassadors.
Despite a lifetime of accolades, Mel remained grounded. He often joked that he and Jackie had been “put to pasture,” but their legacy was anything but idle. His values—hard work, humility, and belief in doing things the right way—will continue to ripple through the industry for generations.
Remembering Mel
Melvin was preceded in death by his parents, Clyde Bollenbach and Anna McMillan, his stepmother Dolly Mitchell, and his brother Merle. He is survived by his cherished wife Jackie, son Wayne and daughter-in-law Rebecca, daughter Kim and son-in-law Lance, and grandchildren Bryce, Gracie, Tristan, Morgan, and Rhodes. His influence also lives on through countless cousins, colleagues, and lifelong friends.
A celebration of Mel’s life was held at 10:00 a.m. on Tuesday, July 1, 2025, at Yanda & Son Funeral Home Chapel in Yukon, Oklahoma.
In lieu of flowers, donations may be made to the Wounded Warrior Project or St. Jude Children’s Research Hospital—two causes close to Melvin’s heart.
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